What should i do if my boyfriend hit me on the face twice? he gave me a black eye and burst lip?

i don't no what i can do bc i only 15. my parents haven't seen my face bc it only happened last night. what should i tell them? should i go to the police? he said i deserved it bc i would kiss him. i don't no what to do. please serious answers please. Thanks xxxxWhat should i do if my boyfriend hit me on the face twice? he gave me a black eye and burst lip?
Any violent contact between two people in a relationship, regardless of their ages, is ';domestic violence';. It was WRONG for him to hit you!!!


Here is what you should do....





1. Show your parents... explain what happened... you will want their help.


2. Seek medical attention if you think you need it.


3. file a police report... they will need to document everything including photos of injuries, etc.


4. Ask the police for a temporary restraining order against your boyfriend. He will ';promise'; to never do it again and be sincere... it always gets broken and each time it happens gets worse and worse.


5. Tell him that you don't want to see him anymore.... hitting your girlfriend/wife/spouse is wrong!!! And you are not gong to settle for that.





Read the Wiki lnk below... it will talk about the ';cycle of violence'; to show you that it is THAT common... and I am not blowing smoke. Alright?





On a different note... you are still young with a lot of life ahead of you. There are lots of guys out there who WILL treat you well, love you with all their heart and never abuse you... and some of them are even really cute, too. Don't settle for promises of treating you better.





Good Luck Peace


What should i do if my boyfriend hit me on the face twice? he gave me a black eye and burst lip?
Being totally honest is the only way to get through this. Tell your parents what happened %26amp; how you feel about it. Tell all the people who care about you - friends, relatives, etc. t's important to keep affirming that it isn't your fault when somebody acts abusively towards you. It's something that happened to you, that's all.





It happens to a lot of women every day. The important thing is how you treat yourself afterwards.





Should you go to the police? I would say yes. If he's also a teenager, and this is the first time this has happened, he won't get into a whole lot of trouble. But a little trouble will show him that this isn't an acceptable way to express anger or frustration.





Should you keep seeing him? There's a vicious circle in which a girl who's beaten goes back to her abuser, because he's made her feel so low that she can't imagine freedom. You don't need to get into this. You are very young, and there are lots of really good guys out there in the world.





Don't become trapped - now or ever. You are free. You are strong. You don't need to be with someone who doesn't treat you right.





It's okay to be sad about what happened. And it's okay to be angry. Don't stuff your feelings, because they can help you find a relationship that works better. Love doesn't need to be painful. You can have love without drama, without abuse, without horrible scenes.
I would tell your parents. It's not like they are going to be mad at you unless they are jerks. And they will know whether or not to involve higher authorities. I would take pictures of your face in case you do take legal actions you will have proof. Then I would ice your face to reduce swelling. And the main one break up with your jerk of a boyfriend. And if he promises it will never happen again he is lying. That is the cycle of an abuser. It's called the Honeymoon phase. After he beats the crap out of you etc... he then begs for your forgiveness and promises it will never happen again. Well I guarantee it will. You need to find a better guy in your life. Good Luck
He's going to tell you he's sorry. He's going to tell you he won't do it again. Don't believe him. By all means, tell your parents and call the police. Even if you leave him (oh, sorry - that's the first thing you should do), how will you feel if you hear he abuses the next girl he dates? You have the power to stop this guy - do it!
Dump him, tell your parents and make a police report right away while you still see your injuries. Take pictures of your injuries and sue him/his parents for pain and sufferning.





He is not allowed to hit you for any reason and you shouldn't put up with it. If you let it go this time, next time will be worse. If you don't stop him now and teach him a lesson, he'll hit his next gf too.



first, get rid of him. second, please get therapy. I am not saying this to be sarcastic. I am saying it because part of you thinks this is okay to put up with abuse. If you think abuse is okay at 15, you will spend your entire life with abusive men. you are number 1. you come first, not some abusive boyfriend. good luck to you, sweetie.
First of all you tell your parents the truth. Call the police. Break up with him! Do all of these things! And never go back to him once a man who will hit you always a man who will hit you!
OMG! first of all dump him! Im 15 too but that never happened to me and your way too young to be having abusive boyfriends! seriously! i dont know if its a police matter but just make sure that it doesnt go any further! hope your ok! x
you should tell your parents and call the cops right now the guy needs to be in jail and have some one beat him like he beat you!!!!
break up and tell the police.





tell the police. tell the police. tell the police.